Dating Tips for Introverts

Incidentally, although I was single when I bought your eBook, I've since met my fiancée. Your eBook made me feel more accepting of my introversion, and probably made my first dates more relaxed.

This 80 page book is a sensitive, inspiring and very helpful guide for introverts. Instead of hearing how you have to "get out more", "be more outgoing", "join a group", "let friends know", how refreshing it is to read a book BY SOMEONE WHO REALLY KNOWS INTROVERTS.

Before ordering, read what other introvertslike you have said about this unique book for introverts dating.

Below is a blurb that you may use if you like. I authorize you to use my name, but not my city. Incidentally, although I was single when I bought your eBook, I've since met my fiancée. Your eBook made me feel more accepting of my introversion, and probably made my first dates more relaxed.

Michael Paitich: With a focus on personality types, Nancy Fenn's eBook affirms your right to remain an introvert and be yourself, while helping you to understand the dating process as it relates to introverts. Her warm, non-judgmental book is peppered with anecdotes that illuminate her points, and success stories to motivate you. I recommend this book.

MJ (from Scandanavia): I like the book, it pinpoint how it is to be introverted. I recognize a lot about how I feel and how extraverted expects me to be. Some of the tips and strategies in the book are things that I thought a lot about but never dare to discuss with anybody because i were afraid that they would think that's something wrong with me. I like the chapters about internet and the links a lot. I think bars and nightclubs are out and internet is the new place to make contacts.

What could be better:

I think there should be a chapter about non-verbal communication and rapport, because non verbal communication requires less energy and by using body language in the right way it's possible to get more attractive. (My favorite book about this subject is "Flirt" by Peta Heskell). [Nancy's note: See my website pages: Body Language of Love and others linked from that intro page.]

want you to know how wonderful it has been to meet you in 2004. You've taught me so much and have brought so much healing into my life. I must let you know that yesterday I got engaged! I am so excited. And no doubt Dating Tips for Introverts had something to do with it! ... MK in San Francisco

Your eBooks have provided that missing element that I’ve wanted to understand for some time. The information contained in these books has opened my eyes to the fact that I share my introverted ways with others which in turn provides a level of comfort and inspiration to move forward.

I liked how you focused on the importance of being yourself, and realizing that by being yourself you will attract the people you want in your life. I have in the past made the mistake of trying to be an extrovert when approaching women, and it is a mistake. I feel that a strong introvert gives up his inner power and what makes him attractive when he does this. Instead of hiding the desirable introvert qualities, it may work better to simply uncover them.

I also liked the information about dating on the Internet, as I have tried this but not really taken it seriously. Many other things about the book I liked, but they are not on my mind at the moment.

One minor note is that If I am remembering correctly, you expressed that introverts often feel their extrovert partner is in some way above them. This may be true for nf's who tend to be highly sensitive, perhaps prone to self doubt. However in my experience strong INTJ's are the most confident and possibly egotistical people on the planet. However, Marginal INTJ's may be different.

I was fascinated by your discussion of the differences between Shyness, introversion, ect. I think you have done a nice job on this topic, and I learned from what you had to say. My feeling is that though shyness can be defined, you cannot generalize about what feelings lead to someone being "shy". Some are shy do to a feelings of shame or inferiority. Others are shy because they are self protective of their superiority. (being on the receiving end of envy can be an ugly, even dangerous thing) Still others may be shy because some types of social interaction trigger a psychological "danger" response, which they intellectually realize is not appropriate for the situation. why this would happen? i am not sure it can be generalized. ..These are jsut thoughts I certainly am no expert! You have alot of fascinating material on your web pages. Good work!

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